Monday, November 10, 2014

So you think you dance?

So I thought I could dance, but I learned otherwise.  Here, you can't just go out and dance.  You need a partner.  And here, the guys have this uncanny ability to sense whether or not you know what you are doing.  

Dammit. 

So my new challenge: Really learn to dance. 


Sunday, November 9, 2014

Blind Ignorance

"Blind ignorance does mislead us O!  wretched morals... open your eyes!" -Leonardo Da Vinci

I feel a little awkward telling this story, because I do not wish to laugh at the plight of another human being, but at the same time, cannot help but shake my head and laugh at the sheer irony of this entire situation. 

A few days ago, my brother and his friend were having coffee with an elderly church leader and his friend from the south. This friend was a blind caucasian man, and turned out to be a recognizable racist.  My brother, who is a tatted up caucasian, and his friend, who is black and also tatted, were talking with this man about education and the state of society, when the man began to detour and go on about race.  He eventually told them in confidence, "I am so glad to be talking to two educated white men.  The other races are just no doing it." Now, my brother and his friend are not ones to pass up opportunities for sarcasm, and do not discriminate.  So his friend, continued to play along, and decided to up the stakes with racist ideas and thoughts, to see how far he could get.  When this blind man's friend made his way back to the table, and realized what was going on, he told his friend "you know [my brother's friend] is black right?" But the blind man just argued that that was not true.  After a while more of arguing, my brother then told him, "it's ok, I am pretty sure that everyone looks black to you."  

These sentiments were shared when another friend of my brother, who is a tatted up mexican man, joined the conversation and the blind man began to go on about how trashy tattoos look on people, and judged that people with tats are essentially the ingrates of society. After a while of debating, my bro's friend, dumbfound, realized that he was arguing about how tattoos look on people with a man who has never seen a tattoo in his life, and never will, and who doesn't seem to understand that he is debating this with a man that was covered in tats and very educated.  So he asked him, "I'm sorry, but how can you even judge someone with tattoos if you have never seen someone with tattoos?" 

I felt bad for the man, making such a fool out of himself, but at the same time, he was so insistent, it seems, on verbalizing his points of view, which, right or wrong, we all have the right to do.  This though, was too reminiscent of a Dave Chappelle joke and skit, where a secretive author of a white supremacist prominent publication turns out to be a blind black man.  What do you do?








Saturday, November 8, 2014

Some lessons from 20 Feet from Stardom


"It's not a level playing field.  It never is a level playing field. You [?] in life understanding that.  It's not about fairness, it's not about talent.  You know?  It's circumstance, it's luck, it's destiny... I don't know what it is. But the best people, deal with that."
- Sting on 20 Feet from Stardom




I have met a lot of remarkable people in my lifetime, whether in passing, or in long term friendships.  I don't know how to ask others if they have the same, or if I just have a gift to meet people and make networks.  Recently though, talented individuals, some with money and many without, have been coming through my life.  Every person has a gifting and talent, but some are simply destined for great things.  I am continually amazed really, but I used to not have much sympathy and love for those individuals with stardom, talent, and ego center stage in their life.  Recently though, I have become friends, interests, and acquaintances with many, and have learned so much regarding their vulnerabilities, their humanity, and their self-confidence.  This was a great documentary, and a great opportunity for me to better reflect on this.  


"We in the music industry, especially African American people, need to know our worth.  We need to know, as women we're important.  And I think the break down is when a woman doesn't know who she is, and she'll settle for less. Check out your worth, because you are worth more than that."
- Dr. Mable John

Thursday, November 6, 2014

I Lived...

I don't want to keep writing about the same issue, pain and struggle, etc.   Life has a way though of teaching you how to face another kind of pain, whether or not you've healed from the last.

Who knew heart ache could come in so many shades.




Hope when you take that jump
You don't fear the fall
Hope when the water rises
You build a wall...
Hop if everyone runs
You choose to stay...
And I hope that you don't suffer
But take the pain
Hope when the moment comes
You'll say...
I, I did it all
I owned every second
That this world could give
I saw so many places
The things that I did
Yeah, with every broken bone
I swear I lived.  

Tuesday, November 4, 2014

Needed some Happy today

Finally watched the music video to Pharrell's "Happy", and I am super stoked to see Los Angeles and its peeps dancing down the street as the backdrop.  I know these places.  I love these places.  


In fact... If you want a view of SoCal/Los Angeles, or you just need a pick me up after a terrible day, check out this site!  :)--> 24 Hours of Happy <-- (:

Monday, November 3, 2014

No.



I fell in love with the impossible.

The unattainable.

The unrealistic.

With a false dream.

That had no thought of my feelings.

Because he couldn't see beyond the surrounding pain.

Very few things hurt like this.


Saturday, November 1, 2014

Comikaze 2014


Comikaze at the LA Convention in Los Angeles, CA


My first Convention, and I really did like it.  I would like to go back and just meet people there and make friends.  So much of it is almost surreal at times, like seeing people checking in their weapons. 


This is like overload for the ADHD mind.  Just look at the pictures below.  
















  






"The Heroes are ok, but it is the villains that make the story." Stan Lee

Stan Lee